I became a member of ShugaMama.com about 7 months ago. I tried it because I was tired of meeting people whose interests weren't the same as mine or were just out to get a free ride. I wanted a place where I had an option to filter out the people who weren't right for me. I wanted to get to know a person first before I would consider them to be my sugar baby or boy toy instead of being physically attracted to him the first time I see him.
Ultimately, I had reached the point where I had totally given up on love. I was thinking that I would never find a sugar baby even halfway decent. I decided to cancel my ShugaMama subscription. While I was waiting for my subscription to end, I received an email from a sugar baby who was eager to find out more about me. I replied and asked him what he had seen in me that interested him. He wanted to find a to be the friend or lover who could help him recollect his ife and business. I, on the other hand, was secretly hoping for an excuse to find happiness again. We anxiously exchanged emails for a couple of weeks until we were comfortable trading phone numbers. The first real conversation lasted until 5:00 a.m. and continued for days! I was so captivated and bedazzled by his wisdom and humor that his physical appearance wasn't an issue anymore.
Soon after, we arranged a meeting for dinner at a place halfway between us. The first time I saw him, I felt a sense of peace. He was what I pictured him to be. He's handsome and sweet. That night with him seemed so short. It was already morning before we knew it. The weekend ended with a kiss and a reassurance that we would definitely see each other again.
My sugar baby has turned out to be one of the sweetest, most compassionate and loving men I have ever met. He spends most of his time working for a hospital and lives life to its fullest. I figured, out of a billion women in this world, he chose me. The love we built together can never be replaced for another. When we are together, it seeems that the lovemaking will never end.
Never in my wildest dreams did I think I would find a sugar baby that most sugar mamas spend most of their lives looking for. It is a great blessing to have such a wonderful sugar baby in my life.
A Few Tips
- Don't ever give up, because there is always someone out there for everyone. It might not be now or even a year from now, but it will eventually come.
- Be honest about yourself and add a picture to your profile. It'll help you find your "one."
- First date: We went to a local Brazilian cafe and talked and partied all night.
