This is a quick guide compiled by me, ShugaMama. Consider this the cardinal rules of  Sugar Mama ism:

1. You, the sugarbaby, have to pursue her strongly, consistently and exclusively, forsaking other women, if you are truly serious about your intentions.

2. Be loving, brilliant, and financially self sufficient. I can't stress this enough. Don't appear to be a freeloader or a cheapskate..

3. Treat her as you would treat a person your age and as you would like to be treated. Bad treatment is bad treatment no matter what age a person is.

4. Don't be anyone's dirty little secret... even if your?sugar mama?is between the ages of XX to XX. If you are scared to come "out" about her during this time period, it is not going to get better with time and it makes her feel really uncomfortable with the relationship.

5. It really helps to have realistic expectations, but to balance those out with realistic boundaries. If you think that sugar mama or a generous older woman is going to fall head over heels and open her heart and purse to you because you are young and virile, don't bet on it. It happens but rarely. Most want to be loved and to love.

6. And again if you are on a site looking for that special lady, at the very least have the minimum paid membership. Even sugar mama 's need to know that there is some financial stability in your life and a paid membership is their first impression.?

Simple isn't it. Now go for it and good luck.